My ds was with the same group of classmates throughout infant school and made some good close friends.
Last year I moved ds to another schoolcloser to home when it was time to move up to the juniors, his old classmates all moved onto the junior school that was federated with his old infant school.
I gathered that ds would easily make new friends at his new school despite being the only new one in class.
Ds has made friends at his new school but they are such close friends has he had at his old infant school it doesn,t seem quite the same.
I had an inkling that he had been missing his old mates and tonight he has really upset me.
He told me tonight that he really misses his old friends and why did I have to move him.
I sort of got the idea that he was saying that I have given him an impossible task because now he is torn between staying where he is and being back with old mates.
He told me that sometimes at his current school that he looks for his old friends on the playground and then remembers they are not there.
I have studied ds on the playground at his current echool and sometimes he does seem a little lost, at his old infant school he was off like a shot with his mates.
I don,t see him interacting that much coming out of school with mates from his current school like I did at his old infant school.
Dh keeps saying that they are older now and that they are much calmer.
I am at a loss as to whether to take the gamble and put ds back with his old mates because I am worried that things will not be the same as they used to be for ds.
His old mates have now been split up into two different classes so he will not necessarily be with his most closest old friends although ds says that won,t matter as he will see them on the playground.
There is also the concern of this school not been as good as his current one which always gets glowing ofsted reports.
The school where his old mates are has had bad reports in the past but is now improving alot.
Please help me decide I am in such a state.
I would hate for it to backfire on us if I moved him.
I am so upset after our conversation tonight.
Dh says that ds will eventually have to make the break anyway when they move onto senior school.
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Please help me to decide what to do in such a state
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blepy · 29/09/2009 23:53
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