About 6 months ago my ds had a massive fall out with some neighbourhood friends.
My ds is 8 and the other children at the time ranged from 8 to 10.
There were two children who in particular were the instigators in what went on but it was very unpleasant and my ds who I admit can be a pain wanting his own way recieved some unfair treatment and these two children managed to get everyone else going against my ds.
The situation actually led to a fight between my ds and one of the lads in my back garden.
I know I was soft at the time and I had calmly tried to help the siutation but the lad who had the fight with my ds was extremely rude to me and kept bawling at me that the problem was myself and my son his exact words.
He obviously felt that I was siding with my ds which wasn,t the case I was merely trying to get them to see that none of them had been playing nicely that day pointless though the 10 year old ranted at me with a awful attitude and I considered going to his parents but resisted thnking it may make things worse.
Now 6 months down the line this lad doesn,t play with the same children and is now trying his best to become friends with ds again but I am not sure that I should allow it to happen for one that incident was not the first time they had fell out and I didn,t like his treatment of me and I am not sure that he and ds are right for each other. ds is a bit of a home bird but this lad is more of a confident play out kid and I fear that it will again go pear shaped.
He would now be 11 and my ds is still just 8.
Would you allow this kid to try and be friends again with your ds if it was you that was spoken to like this.
My dh doesn,t want him anywhere near our ds or house again after his cheek.
When they have played nicely they seem like great friends but after that incident they have not played however this lad is approaching us whenever he sees us and is trying to get ds to go and play with him but ds is uneasy after what happened and I don,t blame him.
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crazedupmom · 01/09/2009 17:47
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