I have a 16 mth old girl and a 3 weeks old boy and I could really use some advise.
Everybody say it is lovely to have children so close to each other and I do agree to some point but I have one problem. BEDTIME.
My partner is working a lot which means he is leaving around 09H30 and is not home before past midnight and that is 4-5 days a week, which means I am alone with the children.
My problem is when my daughter is have her nap (sleeps 2 hours between 11-14) she only falls asleep with either me or my dad next to her, have not been a problem so far because it only takes about 10 min. But now she can only fall asleep if her brother is sleeping which is a little hard to control when he is so young. So sometimes I start a 11 but don't get her to sleep until 13 and that makes me really crazy. I hate the idea that she is tired and I cannot help her and that my son just want to be hold and I keep trying to put him in his bed to see if he wants to sleep. The only I get is two screaming kids.
In the evning she falls asleep on her own that is not a problem I just say goodnight and close the door but the problem there is that she is a very light sleeper so if my son start to cry she wakes up and start to cry. So if it is really bad I have a crying baby and a screaming toddler to comfort on my own.... any ideas ?????
And an hour before my daughters bedtime can hard as well if my son is not sleeping because she want to cuddle and read book for and hour. you know relaxing time but that is not always possible if he is awake and she get absolutly crazy she screams, puls my hair (for fun she thinks) throw thing around and tries to get up when I am holding my son. Any ideas, experince is welcome
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3 week old baby + 16 mth daughter - HELP
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Denmark · 28/05/2005 19:46
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