It's ds' 9th birthday tomorrow & he wanted to have a sleep-over party (as this is what his best mate always does for his birthday). Anyway - I thought I'd keep it relatively simple and have three friends over, so there were 4 boys all together including ds. HA!! Basically it went well last night, although it was a lot more full-on than I expected - they hardly played on the Playstation or watched any movies. All they wanted to do was run around playing war games, star wars, superhero games, etc etc. It went on for HOURS & they were running in and out of the furniture wielding light sabers & swords, climbing over the sofas, jumping off chairs... you get the picture. DH went off and did his own thing at this point (thanks a lot) and I ended up trying to put them to bed at around midnight. I woke up to the sounds of laughter this morning around 7.30am, only to find out that they'd stayed up during the night playing PS2 and had hardly slept.
We took them to a movie this morning (as planned) and the parents were due to pick them up around 2.00pm after we'd had lunch and cake. Anyway... it all started to fall apart around lunch-time. DS got all teary because he didn't like the game they were playing and stormed off. Then a while later, one of the other boys had a dummy-spit over an argument with a third boy, and he stormed off into the garden. Dh & I heard one of them shouting 'get lost idiot' at the other, & ds apparently got hit in the leg by a toy that one of the boys threw at the other. Finally after they'd sorted out their differences, they all wanted to run around playing superhero games again. Two of the boys left around 3.00pm and then ds & his best friend ended up playing peacefully in ds' bedroom together as they always do.
I think lack of sleep was a MAJOR issue here, but I'm just wondering if anyone else has experienced this kind of thing?? Ds has been to sleep-over parties at his best friend's place before and it's never deteriorated like that. Not sure if it's the personalities of the kids involved, or whether these things just sometimes happen when you get a bunch of boys together? I feel that dh could've helped control things a lot more but he didn't seem to want to know - it always somehow gets left up to me!! Anyway I won't be doing it again in a hurry. Even ds is a bit shell-shocked by the way it turned out I think.
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DS just had his first sleep-over party at our place - never again!
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LeighNic · 19/07/2009 07:40
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