Hi Everyone, don't really know where to post this as I'm new to the site and there doesn't seem to be a section under 'returning to work'.
I just wondered if anyone else has their parents or in-laws providing some/all of their childcare and how its working out? Were there any initial issues?
My daughter is 15 mo now and since 12 mo has done 2 days at nursery and 1 with my in-laws. I had expected that I'd struggle to get used to leaving her at nursery but be fine with my in-laws but the reverse is actually true.
There are no serious worries and she seems quite happy in both situations, which is the main thing. There are just little niggles like the fact that MIL won't give food (provided by me) if she doesn't think its appropriate (bit insulting of my parenting choices). They also spring days out on me when I've only prepared food that needs microwaving. She doesn't always offer the bottles if she doesn't think she will want it (even though its part of her daily routine/nutrition and she always wants it).
How does everyone else deal with these trivial issues? Should I bring it up or just learn to let go? MIL can be a bit of a sulker so don't want to cause friction but I'm stewing a tad!
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Parents/In-Laws providing childcare - any issues?
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Gem30 · 17/06/2009 10:57
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