I despair, I really do.
He keeps getting into trouble by other children winding him up. By now, they must look upon it like a sport. All it takes is a little nudge, or somebody throwing a pebble at him, and it sets off a violent temper tantrum, which includes kicking and punching other children. Today he threw rocks. Incidentally one of them hit the bonnet of a parked car. The damage is big, the entire bonnet needs taking off, straightening, and and the car repainted. The sums exceeds the schools liability insurance.
I dont know what to do.
On saturday, he broke his friends bow and arrow and he thrashed his own bicyle helmet.
We had parents evening yesterday. Academically he is brilliant. He is still a year ahead in maths. And in literacy, reading, comprehension, spelling and writing, he had 3 spelling mistakes out of hundreds of exercisises which was part of a test.
But he has such a temper, and he cant control it. The school is trying to teach him strategies for dealing with his temper, such as straight away going to tell a grown up if he feels angry, tell a grown up if somebody is unfair to him, etc. Yesterday he punched a child in the stomach during lunch, because the child had accidentally bumpted into him.
I dont know what to do.
This has only started happening since Christmas. He used to be the most sensitive and placid child.
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My 7 year old son has caused damages for thousands of pounds through his violent outburst.... Please help.
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QuintessentialShadows · 19/05/2009 16:33
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