I know this is early days. I know this has been done before. Sorry. If you've decided your family is complete, can you tell me what it's like please?
DS2 is 17 days old now. He's a joy and I love him, as I do DS1 who's 3.5. I adore my boys and am very happy to have them.
However..... DS2 wasn't meant to be the last child. We were intending to have one more DC after this, but this last pregnancy has been so horrendous that we're now leaning towards never doing it again. DH has pretty much made his mind up, and I know he is right, but feel sad. Before we had the boys, we had a stillborn DD, so there is a "girl shaped" hole in my heart, and a "third child shaped" hole in my heart too. That will never be filled whatever we do; it's something we'll always have to live with anyway.
BUT I never ever ever ever want to be pregnant again. The worry, illness and general stress on our family was truly awful this time round (lots of problems with baby and with me during the pgcy). I would like to be able to stop. I think we probably need to leave the baby phase behind and plan our lives making the most of what we've got.
So how did you decide enough was enough? And if you have two boys, can you please tell me how fantastic it's going to be?
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Talk to me about your completed family, especially if you have two boys
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mrsgboring · 08/05/2009 20:42
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