Hi
I have one ds of 8 who I have been a bit worried about but don,t know whether its me with the problem and I should just stop worrying about it.
Anyway the only opportunity he does have to play with other children his age is through school, for a while he did play with some children in the neighbourhood which didn,t work out due to cliques and some nastiness.
He can be quite fussy about freinds and he is a little sensitive and wants a bit of his own way with what they play.
He was always very popular at infant school and did on occasions have a mate home from school, he still sees one or two of these old freinds now during holidays etc.
I can,t understand why he never seems to want anybody from his new junior school which he has been at since september 08 he was the only new boy in class and I have worried over whether he is making friends properly.
I am still unsure as to whether he does have any real good friends there like at his old infant school.
I have tried to encourage playdates but most of the time he doesn,t seem that bothered about having anyone despite him telling me he plays with alot of people and is happy at his new school.
However me been the loon that I am thinks that he doesn,t want anyone because he hasn,t really made any close friends.
I worry about him not having children his own age to play with except on the occasions that he has the odd one or two mates from his old infant school.
Most of the time he is coming home from school and is happy to play on his ds or play with his dog.
Sometimes he wants me to play with him which can become a bit of a strain at times.
Please am I worrying over nothing and should just leave him to it if he seems happy.
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what to do about 8 yr old ds who isn,t bothered about having friends from school
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tevion · 07/05/2009 19:12
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