I don;t know if the tantrums and moaning is related, but if anyone could shed some light, I'd be most grateful:
TANTRUMS: DD tends to be really grumpy when she wakes from afternoon nap and this grumpiness can sometimes escalate to tantrumming when she starts thrashing around. I don;t know what she wants (and I'm not sure she does either) - if I knew, I'd give it to her.
So far, I've dealt with the tantrums by sitting with her and going through a list of things I think she might want (ie milk, story, biscuit, etc.) and hope that she will say yes to one of them, otherwise we just sit it out.
Today, I tried a different tactic and just walked out of the room and carried on with doing chores. This actually seems to have helped - she came to me for a cuddle and calmed down after almost 10 minutes. then, she was lovely for the rest of afternoon.
I'd been resisting the ignoring tactic because I was worried about her being insecure (see below). Was this the right thing to do?
INSECURITY: Although very confident at nursery, DD can get a bit insecure around large family gatherings and sometimes in toddler groups. What I mean is, she doesn't want to participate, clings to me and moans non-stop.
I'm reluctant to stop going because I'm not convinced that she enjoys it. Sometimes DD loves the dance class, and she does all the actions and talks about it at home. When I ask her if she wants to go, she says YES and drags me out of the house.
So, any ideas why she moans all the time when she's there?
Can anyone enlighten me please?
DD is an only child, and I really have no experience of this. I'm just worried I should be doing something to help her feel secure and happy.
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How to deal with tantrums and moaning almost 2 year old?
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FeelingLucky · 05/05/2009 20:03
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