SLightly long ramble here, sorry...
I have a 3yr old dd (nearly 3 and half) and a 9 wk old ds. DD loves DS and all is tickety boo with their relationship (so far!).
The trouble is me. My dd is a very lively (and I mean VERY lively) little girl, on the go all the time. I'm having broken nights with ds obviously (as only 9wks old) and am really tired. I'm finding it hard to cope with dd and feel like I'm letting her down.
I'm constantly telling her off when all she is being is 3 and lively (and I'm telling her off for things that wouldn't have bothered me before). Then I feel bad and say sorry and cuddle her telling her I love her, but that feels really weak to me and is surely giving her confusing messages. She has been crying quite a lot lately, but I think that is about getting attention. I feel like all she is seeing is me with ds getting looked after and fed (he is a v good baby) and she is getting the opposite.
She goes to nursery 2 and half days a week and I'm thinking of putting her up to 3 days (which is what she did before I had ds and was working) because she tells me she is bored and doesn't want to play on her own, which makes me feel terrible (she does love nursery btw)
All in all I'm feeling guilty and sad for my dd and don't know what to do for the best.
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Feeling guilty and sad for my dd... help/advice/sympathy/miracle answers please?
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imoverhere · 25/04/2009 21:14
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