Dear All,
I'm new to this site but I'm looking for some advice. I'm 36 weeks pregnant and have been with my partner for a little over a year. We're happily together and he's a very supportive partner.
We're both first time parents (I'm in my late 30s). My parents have both died and my extended family lives far away. My partner's mother has offered to come and stay with us, immediately after the birth. Although the last thing I want to do is alienate her (she's a lovely woman) she's still pretty much a stranger to me. My instinct is that - terrifying though it is! - the first few days in our little flat, is a time for my partner and me and our newborn. But I'm worried that by not taking her up on the offer (and with no child care experience between us) I'm being a bit daft!
I think the key thing is the smallness of our flat and my desire for privacy at this time (with lots of nice visits in short bursts). Has anyone else done it entirely alone without female role model and survived?
Any thoughts / advice greatly appreciated!
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EugenieM · 20/04/2009 10:40
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