Hi, I have a 4 year old daughter and I'd love to do as much as I can with her during her holidays that she'll find fun and interesting.
I tried making cakes with her but realised I'd basically done it all for her. I thought afterwards, she could've cracked the eggs, used the whisk etc. She soon lost interest and when I called her to ice the cakes, she wasn't that keen.
We planted some bulbs in her little garden but again I took over as I wanted them to be spread out well, so she lost interest.
I seem to take over everything, from getting her dressed to activities. I really need to stop doing it as I'd love to see her achieve things on her own, it'd boost her confidence. Do you have any advice for me, how can I stop doing this?
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How can I stop myself from interfering and taking over ?
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mummyloveslucy · 03/04/2009 16:14
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