DH has son from prevoious relationship. Dss is 19. My kids with dh are 4 and 3. Basically DSS having a crap time, typical teenager in many respects, he has no job, debts, no place to live (sleeping on friends sofa), no work experience etc... and has just been to court this week for string of offences, drink driving, no license, no insurance, causing an accident etc and has been charged and given suspended sentence and community service.
DH wants him to come and stay with us so he can make a fresh start and work with us in our business. I totally want to support dss BUT...
We are struggling to make business work, dh and I are just coming through a really rough patch, we are both seriously stressed, we live in 2 bedroom flat and he will be sleeping on sofa here, we won't be able to give him any money for the first few months till our business gets going (so a financial strain) and so on
I really don't want him to come. I feel we have enough stress at the moment and I just can't cope with any more. AIBU to put my foot down and say no?
I know he's just a kid and needs a second chance, but I really don't have the strenght for dealing with a deliquent teenager on tp of everything else if he choses not to behave.
Any advice welcome
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rimmer · 11/03/2009 13:36
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