My ds is nearly 4 and since he was born it is always me that cares for him. For example: DP probably changed no more than 10 nappies since ds was born, he's never bathed him and I'm the one who always puts him to bed. Is it because I'm soft and love doing all these things that he doesn't bother?!
I feel so sad that DP doesn't have a brilliant relationship with him . I am always telling ds how much I love him and he says it back to me but he doesn't say it to dp.
For christmas we bought ds a train set with the reasoning that it will be something dp and ds do together - well that's not happening. Last night dp set it up but left ds to get on with it, then shouted at ds when he crashed the train .
dp has another ds (9) who lives 140 miles from us but doesn't seem to want to visit him?
It is because he didn't grow up with his father and doesn't know how to be? I;m at a loss.
I just don't understand and dp doesn't talk about this (doesn't see it as a problem).
Anyone in a similar situation?
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aideesmum · 16/01/2009 14:09
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