dd is 16months old and very demanding bright . I work 3 days per week to keep my sanity and absolutely love the time we spend together.
However, i feel that I am becoming increasingly hard on her, and am becoming the kind of person I don't want to be.
For example, we go to take the dog for a walk, dd starts off in pushchair, but quickly decides she wants to walk, all the way there, and all the way back - about 2 miles at a guess. So we get home and she runs to the front door and holds her hand out for me to help her up the step. As soon as she holds on to my hand she takes all feet off the floor and hangs on to me. Now I know she is just playing and is probably tired, but i am trying to get her, the dog and the pushchair in the house and I end up saying in a firm voice "put your feet on the floor please dd and walk properly" , or when she is playing shouting to her "if you want your dinner dd you'd better shut that cupboard door and come and sit down please"
i realise in the great scheme of things that this is not bad, and I'm just being firm, but I feel so awful expecting so much from her (she usually complies btw) can anyone offer me some perspective on this? Sould i be allowing her to play and mess around, or is it ok to expect some conformity for certain things?
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I think I expect too much from my baby :(
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dontbitemytoes · 13/01/2009 20:24
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