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Please tell me the wailing will end soon?

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WhatFreshHellIsThis · 01/11/2008 20:24

Ds has been ill - nasty cough, temperature, etc etc

He's on the mend now, still has the cough a bit, but doesn't seem to be able to shake the tiredness off - or the wailing!

All day long, he wails at the slightest thing. Getting a nappy changed takes about half an hour when you factor in the negotiations required. The slightest thing goes wrong, he wails. If I attempt to do anything except be with him, he hangs onto my leg and wails.....

'Don't go up the stairs!'
'Don't open the cupboard!'
'Don't eat your breakfast!'
'Don't brush your hair!'

ad infinitum

Please tell me this is just the illness and it'll be over soon? Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssseeeeeeeeeee?!?!

Or is this just normal 2.5 year old behaviour? Cause if it is, I'm moving to Peru.

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Shitemum · 01/11/2008 20:26

My DP is from Peru and they wail there too I'm afraid.
No the wailing doesnt ever end the wailing voice just gets deeper and the sentence structure becomes more complex...

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Spidermama · 01/11/2008 20:27

Perhaps you could get some foam ear plugs and let him get on with it. Just a bit.

I LOVE your name by the way. It's a phrase I use almost daily. I can't remember from whence it came but am thinking a Shakespeare play? Macbeth perhaps?

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Spidermama · 01/11/2008 20:28

IME wailing becomes whining when they are well and reverts to wailing when illness strikes again.

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nickytwooootimes · 01/11/2008 20:30

Ds is 2.3 and is fantastic at wailing when under the weather or tired.
Spidermama is right - whining is the default setting for toddlers.

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WhatFreshHellIsThis · 01/11/2008 20:34

He's normally quite a sunny tempered child.....I'm worried that he'll never go back to his old self, and that this is it for the foreseeable future.

You try and do anything remotely positive, and it's 'Nooooooooooooooooo! I don't want to have a nice time! I don't want to have a treat! I don't like the pretty flowers! Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!'

I'm so tired.

As for the name - I used to be LittleMyDancing but the dancing stopped about the time that the wailing began! Apparently it's what Dorothy Parker used to say when the phone rang......

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Lapsedrunner · 01/11/2008 20:39

sounds normal to me

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Chaotica · 01/11/2008 21:32

Sounds like DD sometimes (2.6). Especially when she's ill. So: normal. (Book tickets to somewhere far away...)

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