I could do with some advice please
I'm obviously not of the 'children should be seen and not heard school' but equally, I'm keen on children learning a few manners and allowing adults to converse once in a while between themselves without being constantly interrupted ....
how do you strike the balance please???
Example: I recently had a very close friend visit (she turned up unexpectedly - she has moved countries - and we had 35 minutes to chat) and my dd 5 yrs kept interrupting our conversation every 2 or 3 minutes ..either wanting to talk or demanding attention . to the extent that I was quite embarrassed ...
at first we watched her dance, then we included her in the conversation, then I set her up with a drawing activity, then when that didn't work I asked her not to please interrupt, when that didn't work I asked her a bit more firmly .... (I didn't want to embarrass dd or my friend by having a loud confrontation about it) ...nothing worked and I ended up quite frustrated and upset ...
I probably should have put the telly on but we are in the middle of a "turn off the telly month" and I didn't want to break our agreement ....
she's a child who gets lots of attention normally and I don't thinking asking her to play by herself for 35 minutes occasionally is asking too much is it??? Or is it???
how would you have handled this situation in particular and how do you handle this issue in general please??
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Countingthegreyhairs · 21/09/2008 20:22
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