I am now stopping work for a bit for the first time since DCs were born (other than shortish mat leave). The thing is I feel guilty about not working, like I should be working. Truth is my Dcs are at a fab age and phase where I really want to be with them (and them with me). With a big house move hopefully coming up, I want to be around for them a lot.
I think secretly DH is a bit pssed off at me as although he says it is all OK and I have my own savings to support me, I am the breadwinner and I don't want to be.
So, don't want to start a big fight on what is right and wrong - but why is it OK for me not to work? because I have always and still feel that I should bring in the ££ I need to live off. Am I just being stupid feling guilty?
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Feeling guilty about giving up work- Why is it OK for me not to work? Feeling v v v guilty
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OneLieIn · 01/09/2008 19:08
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