DD turned 11 last month. She goes on the internet mainly to play in Club Penguin and sometimes goes on Youtube as well. I wasn't very happy about this but have kept an eye on it and she mainly looks at harmless stuff like Harry Potter puppets, music videos, and clips from TV shows (e.g. I'd Do Anything). However, I had a look at her browsing history this morning and found she's been looking at some really dodgy stuff. I had only a quick look as was getting ready to leave the house, but it seems she went from streakers to nude college babes to (wait for it) 'Gay Skinheads f*ing to explode'. I'm reasonably sure she didnt' seek this stuff out, but probably followed links which took her downhill pretty fast.
I had lifted some of the controls on her account to save me having to come and enter my password every time she wanted to visit a new website, but have put them all back on, plus some more! My first reaction was to give her a severe telling off but I haven't said anything to her yet.
So now some questions:
(a) How should I tackle this with her? Now that I've thought it over, I don't want to go way over the top. It's natural that she should be curious, but she can't appreciate that pursuing her curiosity online could take her to some very dark places.
(b) Is 11 way too young to be looking at Youtube?
(c) Do you supervise your children's internet access? Our computer is in the loft so I can't keep an eye on her all the timebut I could make it a rule that she uses only the laptop so that she can be in the same room as me. (I think I could even disable the internet browser for her on the main computer.)
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DD watching adult content on Youtube - advice needed
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muffinmonster · 13/08/2008 12:33
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