Ds starts high school in Sept. He is often reluctant to leave the house if I have to nip to the shops etc. and can get very upset about it. Ds has Aspergers and is difficult to reason with!
I have been known to let him stay at home on his own for 20-30mins whilst I nip out, I have also let him walk back from the park, giving him my key.he enjoys the independance.
I was planning to get him his own key in Sept and let him let himself into the house after school, whilst at primary school I collected him from After-school club. I work 30 miles from home and finnish work at the same time he finishes school so was anticipating being not far behind him. In addition this wouldn't be everyday as Dh works from home a couple of days a week.
I was happy with this arrangement but, because of his disability, Ds qualifies for a taxi to school. I received a letter confirming this but it states that there must be a parent/guardian present when child returns.
I feel awful now, I didn't mean to live up to my name!
Am I doing the wrong thing?
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Leaving an 11yr old home alone - opinions please
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unfitmother · 09/08/2008 16:54
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