God, what a shit morning already. OK, am 38 wks pg so that's probably not helping my ability to cope, but DD, who was 2 last week, is seriously tricky at the moment. Every single request/statement I make is greeted with 'no', tears, and/or a physical battle. This morning we both ended up in tears before nursery, which is not a great start to the day. And I feel like a rubbish mummy, not being calm and in control.
Ironically, or perhaps not, I am reading 'How to talk so kids will listen' and it makes lots of sense to me, but much of it seems applicable to older children. Anyone have any suggestions for the bits of the book that really do help with tetchy toddlers?
I was offering her a limited choice between two t-shirts this morning for instance, (lola or upsy daisy, natch) and she got really upset because she couldn't decide - DH said when she's in that sort of mood maybe I should just cut out choice altogether and just put her in some clothes so we can get out of the house.
Will be reading Unconditional Parenting after this one (I love a bit of child rearing theory, me, just can't quite get the hang of the practice!) and from the other thread it looks like that might mirror my natural style (on a good day...)
Anyway, thanks for listening. Any suggestions warmly welcomed.
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Which bits of 'How to talk so kids will listen...' work with two year olds? Fed up of battles...
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Pinchypants · 05/08/2008 09:29
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