Right, dd1 (13) has just been excluded from school from school for taking a purse out of a visitors handbag! When deed was found out she owned up straight away, and had already thrown away said purse. She said she didn't take anything out of it, woman says she took 20 quid, which i had to bloody pay back.
School left it to woman to see if she wanted to press charges, 3 days laters, she didn't. Lucky for dd imo.
History is this is not the 1st time, or 2nd or even 3rd. She has stolen from her friend at their house, (20 quid birthday money), money out of my friends purse at my house, she took my debit card once, took out 130 quid and bought herself a new phone. (cos we wouldn't have noticed a new phone).
Each time, she is in tears, sorry, and says won't do it again. We got police round last time, and they talked to her about repucussions now she is a teen etc.We thought she had taken it in then.
Most recent incident, shook her up i think as we had no control over it, ie it was up to a stranger if she went to police or not, iyswim.
I grounded her for 2 weeks, which has just come to end, she behaved impeccably during this time, was pleasant, helpful and a totally different child to the one that she is in rl when she sees her friends regularly.
I am married to her stepfather, she is the oldest of 5, and she doesn't go without. She sees her real dad intermittantly, she thinks he is a waste of space who can't be bothered with them, (her and 10 yr brother) She is right. Last week she saw him for 1st time in 8 wks, before that it was 4 mths. (he gives me 50 wk for the 2 of them)
Yesterday we found ds1 (10) in posession of his cousins psp game, made him take it back and face very stern uncle, but wtf, why do they do it.?
Just found jar of noney in ds1 bedroom, they take food all the time, other people's stuff etc. I slapped ds1 on the arm as i was shouting at him but this is not really the answer is it?
Was just the icing onthe cake, a jar of honey fgs!!
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how do I stop my kids stealing??
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liahgen · 04/08/2008 09:15
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