I have an 11 week old, and I aleady know that I am very lucky to have a supportive DH, but am wondering now if I am actually taking the piss?! Please tell me what you think of how things are in our house - are they unbalanced in my favour the way they are?:
- I look after baby through night (breastfeeding and nappies). She goes to sleep at 6 with feed, wakes up at 6 with feed and wakes up for food about 3 times in night from 10pm to 4am.
- From 6am (when baby wakes up properly) to 10am DH looks after baby while I get some sleep til 9am then get ready, have brekkie, do some washing/empty bins...little jobs.
- I look after baby all day weekdays while DH works from home.
- DH prepares dinner (he makes a big batch some weekends and freezes meals to heat up) and often makes me lunch too.
- About 5.00 DH comes to help and then he bathes her while I get her bedclothes/room ready for sleep.
- From 7pm-9pm I have a shower/relax then go to bed about 9pm (or 7pm if exhausted), DH stays up til about 11pm.
I do any housework/washing etc. DH does food shopping. At weekends the idea is we both do 50/50 with the baby.
DH gets out by doing a martial arts class two evenings a week (and a few times if anything else has come up such as a boys camping weekend/trips away to visit parents etc). I get out with baby - taking her for walks, to my mum's, seeing friends etc. So far have been out on my own without her for an hour. On a weekend I have 2 hours specially to wash hair etc. But every day I make time to do my makeup and usually hair, wear something nice.
Do you think he's doing too much? Do you think the morning 'lie-ins' I have are taking the piss because he wants them to stop and I think he might be right.
Thanks for ploughing through the tedious details of my daily life