I was going to put this in am I being unreasonable but I know I am not.
DD had an extra week of school so she went to stay with my sister. For two days dd stayed with a friend and her family. Said friend has just gone through a divorce and reliving her teenage years. She has always been a wonderful mum and even cared for dd while I was in hospital so I had no concerns about her caring for dd. Her own child had always been a bit of a spoilt madam though, but friend admits this and has always been very good with my dd.
I collected dd yesterday from friends house to find out that she had been watching nightmare on Elm Street on you tube, dd is 6. The night before they had been up until 4 in the morning. They had not got dressed all day and all she had eaten was some cereal and biscuits. There were teenagers trapsing in and out of the house, although they seemed OK actually. The house was completely upside down, the room where she was sleeping we could not see the floor ( this is her own business but worrying as her house is always so tidy) there was scribble all over the walls - dd had added to this.
DD has come home with a real attitude that I would expect from my hard core year 9s.
Then to top it all when we were discussing our move down south dd asked how far from London we were because we could go to the spearmint club to learn to dance, I realised she meant the Spearmint Rhino lapdancing clubs
She has asked me to take her to some godawful clothes shop in town where they sell tarty clothes for girls - I am not!
Since coming back dd has been exhausted and visibly upset, she is clinging to dp and I and wanting us to be in the same room all the time.
Do I say anything to my friend or just not let her go again?
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How long will my new nightmare and upset child take to go back to normal and should I say anything to my friend?
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twinsetandpearls · 07/06/2008 10:15
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