Hi
I have just the one ds and for quite some time I have been feeling terrible for just having him.
I have deep regrets that he is on his own and I am constantly beating myself up about it.
I myself have always been a shy person so don,t have any friends with children of his age for him to play with, therefore it has always been just me and my ds. I do have my dh but of course its not the same as sharing an outing with mum friends and their children.
I find school holidays torture as I feel awful for my ds that I don,t have anybody I can ring or go and see who have children he can play with.
I realise that its all my own fault for being so socially inept.
I have arranged for the odd mate to come after school but I do seem to be the only one that ever bothers. My ds although he has had the odd invite hardly gets any invites anywhere.
I can't seem to go anywhere these days without looking at other children their parents and noticing how they seem to all be in a large group of friends etc and there is me and my ds always on our own with nobody.
None of my family are really interested in coming anywhere with us my two sisters children have all grown up so they are at differnt stages in their life.
I realise I am sounding really sorry for myself but it is something that has really been depressing me for some time.
I also know there is plenty of clubs out there that children can join but they never seem to work out properly for my ds never seems to make any mates out of them.
There is also never any children seen playing out by our house that my ds could play with.
The bottom line is that I truly regret having one dc as I can't help but things would have been different had my ds had a sibling.
Does anybody else feel like me am I abnormal for having no mum friends at all.
I really don,t know what to do to change the situation.
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Does anybody regret only having one child
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vilgax · 22/05/2008 18:52
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