I know it's prob normal, but my dd started preschool 4 weeks ago for 2 morns a week and and was absolutely fine for the first 4 sessions but has started to get upset from the minute she sees her school jumper in the morning until the minute I leave her.
She loves it when she is there and stops crying the minute I walk out of the door, however, I am getting really stressed at the painful hour or so before we get there.
It's not a naughty upset, it's a genuiune upset, she says she wants to stay at home and she really misses me. Nothing I say appeases her.
She's started to invent illnesses in the hope that I'll keep her at home and this morning broke my heart coz she was whimpering most of the car journey but trying not to cry and said "I'm going to be brave today".
She is really full of beans when I pick her up and all the teachers say what a lovely time she has there and that she's really happy all thru.
I dread getting up on school morns and dread getting her dressed as I know it's going to be a battle. what do I do? I know I should stick it out, but for how long? I am 7 months preg also and really want her to settle before the baby comes along.
I don't mention it to her until she gets dressed, I keep really upbeat about it, talking about all the lovely toys and snack-time etc, I tell her I will be at home, doing boring ironing and chores and that I'll be waiting for her with a treat when I pick her up. Nothing works.
Is she just too young at 2.8? She's very bright and her speech is superb. Help!
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2.8 yr old getting really upset before preschool
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dawneg · 02/05/2008 11:29
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