When ds was born my dh was fortunate to be able to take his full 2 weeks paternity leave plus another 2 weeks normal leave on top so we had a great "babymoon" with just the three of us all holed up together in a bit of a lovely dreamworld.
Baby no.2 is due in 10 weeks time and dh is now self employed and only only able to take 1 week off. I'm starting to panic about how different it will be this time round, not only will I not have dh's support but I will of course be looking after our ds as well as the baby, ds will be 3.8 when the baby arrives.
My mum, sister and MIL both work full time so I can't ask them to help.
Ds will go to nursery 2 days a week (although as I work Mon-Thurs he normally goes 4 days and therefore another thing I'm panicking about is us both getting used to spending more time with each other anyway- sounds mean but just being pratical and honest.) I'm planning on having 9 months off on maternity leave.
I'm really worried about how I'm going to cope. I know that thousands of other mums cope with having two children so sorry if I'm being a bit of a wuss, I'm just panicking about not enjoying this second baby experience as much as the first and that makes me feel so guilty in advance .
Any tips on how to get through those early weeks alone with teeny babe and pre schooler who is likely to be a bit bored of me?
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Being left alone after new baby arrives- Coping strategies please!
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Minkus · 28/04/2008 22:08
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