My 4.5 yo dd has been saying really recist things for a while now. In the first instance She said another child smelt of poo because they had brown skin. I went straight to nursery as well as having a long chat, repeated for days about how people are all different, nursery duid the same. I thought the issue had been dealt with and then a couple of weeks later she said one of the presenters on cbeebies had yuccky brown skin. I did the same again and said that there skin was lovely etc. This then carried on so i just told her that it was not acceptable and hurt somebodies feelings to say these things. Again i thought she had forgotten about it and she said something yesterday about black skin being gross.
She also identifies her nursery friends to me by the colour of their skin, i.e you know xxxx with normal pink skin like me.
Obviously this is really upsetting me and I really need to deal with this but I am running out of ideas as I don't want to make it any worse and I am really worried that she may have said something unkind to the other child at nursery.
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ditavonteesed · 28/04/2008 07:52
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