I don't post on here very often and guess I just need to get things off my chest and see if anyone else in the same boat or has any advice...
DD is 11 months old and I'm a SAHM (well I'm self employed running an online business from home, but I only get a chance to do this in the evenings and one day a week when my mum has her).
I have to say I'm finding being a SAHM really hard going, all the friends I made when DD was younger have gone back to work and I'm feeling quite lonely. I look forward to going to supermarket and stuff just to see some adults and make conversation with the cashiers!!! How sad am I?
I do go to a class with DD on a monday, but it' s hardly stimulating for me and I don't get to socialise much with the other mums (most of whom with babies of similar age are much older than me and tend to clique together). I also feel like DD isn't getting enough interaction with other little ones (unlike all my friend's babies who are in nursery) and I feel guilty cos of that.
I guess I feel a constant pressure to be entertaining DD, keep the house clean and tidy and cook wholesome meals, somehow the 'me' side of things has been left behind and I feel guilty for not being 100% happy all of the time especially when I'm constantly being told by other mums how lucky I am to be at home.
Forgive my moaning, but feeling a bit sorry for myself today!
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fluffyslippers · 23/04/2008 16:33
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