It is a can of worms. I dont know where to start, and I dont know how to really best convey the situation.
My sister has never been much of a hands on mum, since her dd was little has she longed for her to grow up and become independent. She has not enjoyed motherhood, and she has many health issues, and some personality issues too, I would say.
DD is now 12, and entering a difficult stage in her life, and complains she is depressed and wants to die. My sister and her lives alongside eachother, they rarely talk. My sister spends a lot of time in bed, crying that she wants to die, and generally cursing her existence and the world around her. DD is not allowed to go on any activities, because my sister is scared she will get injured. She even refused her to join us on minigolf a long staircase down from her flat, because she could stumble on the stairs. My sister is yelling at her dd a lot, and generally not very pleasant to her. My sister seems most of the time so preoccupied with herself that her dd becomes non existent, her school work is not followed up, she does not have clothes that fit, there has been times where they have spent a whole week in bed doing nothign but read Harry Potter together, as it was easier than taking her to school, and there isnt food in the house that dd likes, so she doesnt eat.
Now my mum has started talking about involving dds father, and telling him how the situation is. I really dont know.
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notreallysayingthis · 16/04/2008 22:38
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jammi ·
16/04/2008 23:01
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