Hi
My employers are having real problems at the mo, in that their 30 month old DS says "no mummy" all the time and just wants Daddy. It's been going on for almost 5 months and the Mummy (bless her) is starting to get really very upset about it. She thinks he hates her. I've tried explaining that toddlers naturally go through phases of prefering one parent over another, to no avail. Now she thinks there's something wrong with him, or herself. The lil guy gets lots of (mainly negative at this point) attention for the whining, screaming, crying he does in order to monopolise Daddy. We've tried ignoring, redirecting, putting on step til he speaks nicely. He just wants his Daddy. However, when Daddy's not around, at work, lil fella is fine, loves his mummy and we have no issues. As soon as Daddy walks in all hell breaks loose. Daddy is very busy and tries to placate lil fella by carrying him around all the time. But I feel that's not so great an idea and it's not working anyway. I just want Mummy and Daddy to be happy, they are so frustrated and at each others throats about it. Any advice would be very much appreciated, before I have to start charging for marital therapy and well as nannying.
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What to do when 2yr old DC prefers daddy to mummy all the time?
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mananny · 11/04/2008 01:16
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