Hi
Sometimes I feel like the most awful parent in the world.
My ds is an only and is 7 years old.
He has always been quite demanding on me wanting me to play games with him, etc.
Part of the problem also is that there is never anybody for him to play with, no cousins etc of his own age in the family.
I am also very shy and find it difficult to get out there and make friends of my own, and to even try and talk to people.
As a consequence of this I have no friends with dc,s of the same age for him to play with.
I long for my ds to have some mates to play with but I really don,t know how to go about getting him any.
He is quite popular at school and does have friends there and sometimes has them back for tea after school.
However me being so shy I find it difficult to try and arrange this all of the time.
I hate school holidays as I hate seeing him on his own all of the time.
I honestly don,t know what I can do about it.
He does rely on me quite a bit to do things with him when alot of the time I just cannot be bothered and then I feel guilty so end up trying to play with him.
I try suggesting going to the park, thinking that he will at least maybe find somebody to play with but he never wants to go.
I have tried beavers but he got fed up of that.
He never wants to go anywhere where he doesn,t know other children.
I also beat myself up daily about him being an only as I feel that things may of been different if there had of been a brother or sister.
I think he would have been more willling to do stuff.
It also makes me feel awful if I do go anywhere and see other moms together with friends and their dc's.
I wish so much I had that.
Is there anybody else who feels like me or am I the only one.
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Not sure what is right by my ds anymore and I feel like a crap parent
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lostittoday · 07/04/2008 10:11
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