Hi
My ds frequently has a friend home for tea after school.
However how do I deal with their little squabbles, such as one wanting to do one thing, and the other wanting to do something else.
My ds drives me mad coming up to me saying that his mate will not do what he wants to do and won,t play with him.
It usually ends with one doing one thing, and the other doing something else, both in a strop.
How do I deal with this I really don,t know the right way.
I try telling them to sort it out bewteen them but they seem incapable.
The one occasion my ds's mate wanted to play on the pool table, but my ds wouldn't play with him, my ds's friend was quite upset so I had a game with him, my ds then tried to ruin the game by throwing his toys onto the table.
My ds has this attitude that its his house so his friends should play what he wants them to play as it his toys, possesions, etc.
Sometimes my ds will march off and put the telly on and shout at his mate for making too much noise.
Please help I find it so frustrating.
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Playdates how do you deal with their squabbles
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lostittoday · 05/04/2008 16:30
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