Can't bear to call him DS right now.
Just took him and his older brother to tesco and he was completely wild, diving in and out of clothes hangers, darting around the aisles, shouting and laughing manically...I kept telling him off, grabbing hold of him, trying to talk to him, warning him...everything just made him worse. People were looking at me and in the end I just ignored him and let him carry on, at least then people were not sure whether he was with me or not.
And then at the tills he climbed up onto the window ledge and started running up and down the windows (its quite high), I was stuck at the till and couldn't make him get down and my attempts at talking him down were met with more laughter and rude comments. In the end he was told off by a tesco worker which was embarrassing...he got off eventually and then as soon as her back was turned he was up again.
When I finished at the till I rushed over to him and shouted at him to get down and then this little girl started imitating my voice saying "get down now" over and over again. It was so embarrassing. I must have looked like a common fishwife.
I'm getting to the point where I really don't want him around. He shows me up everywhere we go. People have a go at me about him but I can't control him. He embarrasses me, he embarrasses his brother, I can't visit family with him because I get so shown up, I can't take him to friends houses because of the way he is, I even dread going to the shops and the hairdressers.
I just wish he could go and live with his dad, even if it was just for a few months so I could have a break. Sometimes I don't even like him. He turns me into something I hate. God knows what the neighbours must think.
Last night he was playing me up until gone 11pm, he went to bed at 7pm. In the end I lost it and screamed at him to go to sleep and he burst out laughing.
He is supposed to be under a behavioural team but they're useless.
What can I do? I just wish he could go and stay somewhere else for a while.
He's 7 by the way but acts like a 2 year old.
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MrsSnape · 28/03/2008 11:49
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