I allow my 9 year old son 2 hours of computer time a night. I have parental controls set on his account so that certain sites are banned etc...
Anyway one of his favourite sites is "Roblox" which is a community where kids build little worlds in a "lego" type setting and can chat to each other.
Anyway he said he was having trouble logging in so I came in to do it for him, after putting in the password etc a message came on saying he had violated the sites terms and conditions and had been reported by another member for "profanity".
Underneath this was a transcript of what he had said to someone and it went like this:
"You mother f u c k e r, you big b i t c h, im going to f u c ki n g beat you up!"
I asked what the hell he was playing at and who he'd written it to, first he said he didn't write it, then he said his brother had written it, eventually he said he wrote it but didn't mean to press send, he then began crying and begged me not to tell anyone etc. He won't give me a proper reason as to why it was written in the first place.
I don't know how to handle this, he's usually "the good kid", never in trouble ... I'm shocked and quite upset.
He would be devestated if I banned him from the PC but I'm thinking it deserves this?
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Suitable punishment for this? ways to handle it...?
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MrsSnape · 08/03/2008 15:16
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