Dh had a benign brain tumour (meningioma) removed almost 4 years ago, he fully recovered with no ill effects other than loss of sense of smell. Unfortunately, the tumour has come back and he?s facing a 2nd round of surgery, smaller than the last lot tho - as brain surgery goes it?s fairly routine.
My main worry at the moment is dd1, she was 6 weeks old when he had his first op but will be just turned 4 for the upcoming op. Last time he looked horrific after the surgery with the huge scar and really shocking swelling, nurses on the ward said it was the most severe case of bruising they?d ever seen.
How does a 4 year old cope with seeing her Daddy like this??? I?m hoping that it may not be so bad this time round but I?m thinking if he?s prone to bruising like a peach it?s likely to happen this time too.
If anyone has any advice it would be very, very gratefully received.
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How do I prepare dd1 for dh?s upcoming brain surgery?
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ProfYaffle · 29/02/2008 19:37
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