this is my 1st post, although have been regular visitor to the site for some time.
This has probably been done numerous times before but i need some help.
My dd is 2.5 and is a shy child (i hate the term btw)
On Saturday i took her to a party, she didnt know anyone or the venue etc and spent a lot of the party crying. She wouldnt go on any of the equipment if anyone else was on it and cried and got off if anyone came onto anything she was using. I got a lump in my throat as i used to be shy as a child and knew how she felt. I wanted to sweep her up, but know that probably wont help in the long term.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how i can help her or recommend a book which they have found useful.
Incidentally, she doesnt go to nursery anymore as i am on mat leave after having ds.
It took her some time to adjust going to nursery and would often cry when i left her and they told me she wouldnt often join in with the other children.
Also, i am getting pretty hacked off with people saying "is she shy" - anyone any suggestions what kind of response i can give that indicates their questioning isnt helping my DD, just giving her a complex.
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deckchair · 04/02/2008 11:59
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