Ds2 was born on Wednesday. I longed for this baby. He took a year to conceive and I spent the pregnancy just wanting to meet him/her.
Went in for an elective section on Wednesday and only when I was in theatre did I find out that no children are currently allowed to visit the hospital, so we had planned for ds1 to come to the hospital later that day only to be told that I wasn't going to see him for 3 or 4 days instead.
During the pregnancy I was convinced that I was having a girl so had quite a shock when ds2 appeared! Didn't really have a name that suited so he spent the first 36 hours just being "baby" and I spent my time in hospital feeling that my gorgeous son was at home, while I was in hospital looking after a baby boy that I didn't know or even really expect to have.
We are home now and things are going well but while I am doing all I can for the baby, it's ds1 that I feel really close to and this really is nothing like the rush of love I felt when ds1 was born.
I know that this is apparently quite normal but I could really do with some of you lot telling me that you felt the same and that it will change quite soon....?
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Please come and tell me that it is completely normal to take a bit longer to bond with your 2nd/subsequent babies?
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beansprout · 27/01/2008 20:39
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