DS is 8yo, y3.
His school just started an after-school music club, trying to form a band DS to play guitar. 20 minute lesson included in the £3/week fee, but inconvenient for me if he goes running back & forth to school all afternoon.
DS came out one day saying he didn't want to go with music club to the evening carol concert (for all ks2, attendance not compulsory, at least I think not).
So I dropped a note thru to music club teacher to say we wouldn't pay for 2 sessions because he didn't want to do the evening concert.
But he still had to rehearse with all KS2. One rehearsal he sat with the other guitarists, playing Jingle Bells (which he likes and was competent enough at). The next rehearsal the music club teacher said "Well if you aren't coming tonight, go sit over there" -- with the kids singing "12 Days of Christmas" which I realise now is what he found really tedious.
DS did as he was told but came home cross, says that he was "butted out" of music club, he doesn't want to go again. DH & I feel the teacher was unfair, no harm in DS rehearsing with other guitarists. DS says he's embarrassed at the idea of me speaking to music club teacher, though.
DS doesn't do any other regular after school activities, I feel bad if he's quitting over something so petty... then again, he rarely sustains interest in anything so probably he would find another reason to quit soon.
Do I forget about it or do something to get DS to go back to the club?
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lljkk · 18/12/2007 14:42
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