I am tearing my hair out with her at the moment and i dont know what to do about it - sometimes i feel like just walking out the door without looking back.
I am sick of her attitude toward me, the arguing back - having to be right for everything and always having an answer, not tidying up after herself, leaving her empty wrappers and clothes lying around and then when i ask her to pick them up she whinges that i give her too much to do. She talks to me and treats me like a piece of crap that shes just trodden in, there is no respect at all. She used to be kind and loving and helpful until she started school and since she has changed.
Our relationship has gone to pieces compared to what it used to be.
I also have two young sons 3 and 1 and she loves them to bits and i think she does understand that i do need to do more for them because they are so young. I try to get some one on one time with her like take her out just us and read, help with homework etc so she does get attention. Another thing she does which i've told her is rude is that she will constantly ask for food round my friends houses - like biscuits/crisps etc - i tell her its rude to ask and she must wait until she is offered but it falls on deaf ears.
She says i dont tell her i love her and kiss her much which i can see but at the moment her behaviour is so awful pretty much all the time - i do tell her i love her and give her cuddles and kisses when she is behaving but i am not going to reward her bad behaviour by telling her i love her.
I've got to put a lid on this before she becomes an out of control teenager - the one that shes already acting like and will be a thousand times worse in a few years time!!!
Please tell me a way to make this better.
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JackJacksmummy · 07/12/2007 22:16
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