And not just a xmas - seems to be all year round.
I hate it, it drives me nuts. DS is only 2 so too young to understand or care about the value of things but if this carries on he's going to come to expect it isn't he? and as much as I hate to say it he's going to become like my BIL children who are lovely kids BUT are incredibly materialistic and generally lacking in appreciation for things.
(Yes I know judgey judgey)
Watching them at xmas is a souless experience as they open their mountains of presents with barely a glint of excitement. It's like you can see them mentally ticking off the check list of things they asked for.
I've already had a heated discussion with MIL about what she intends to buy him for Christmas (ie too much) and that ended with a "He's my GS I'll spend what I want"
I think what guts me most is that he's my little boy and of course I want to spoil him occassionally but when he's constantly being spoilt by everyone around him I feel like I have to refrain from doing it. I want it to be our gift at Xmas that's the most special and exciting but when his grandparents are matching and infact exceeding what we can afford to spend how is that possible?
Sorry this is more of a rant really. I'm not an ungratefull cow honest, I just want them all to tone it down a bit.
all this because so far this week he has been given a total of 3 advent calenders. Maybe I would have liked to have chosen his advent calender. God that's a tad pathetic I know but anyhoo.
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How do you deal with family members who go OTT on gifts/treats
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