My ds, aged 12, has a good school attendance record - only one or two days off a year.
This morning he woke up feeling tired and grumpy and said he was unwell. I think he was genuinely feeling a bit grotty but that he would have perked up enough to cope with school.
He's coming into his temper-ridden teens and I was worried that if I became very authoritarian, the issue would have escalated into a row.
So I left it to his judgement and let him stay home. I'm hoping that by being softly softly I will encourage him to take responsibility for continuing good attendance. I'm afraid that if I am too harsh in this respect he will become defiant and it will always be me, rather than his own conscience, that enforces attendance.
THose of you with kids around the same age, what do you think would have been the right thing to do?
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DS, 12, off school today even though he's not really poorly enough to need to stay at home. Your thoughts please.
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Threadworm · 09/11/2007 11:11
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