I've never used a naughty step. He has heard the term from other parents and obviously watched what happens. He often wants to sit with the other child to keep them company...
But the other day he chucked a toy car and it hit my leg, so I asked him to say sorry. He's very stubborn about sorrys in general - he used to say it easily, with no prompting, but then do exactly the same thing again, so I added "And what does sorry mean?" and he says "Mustn't do it again" - but he's taken that very literally, so if it is something there's an outside chance of him doing again, he won't say sorry. Man of his word or what?!
So instead of saying sorry, he wants to sit on the naughty step. He did this for a little while, telling me to go away when I went back to see him the first time, then saying sorry when I went the second time.
So whilst I don't object to him doing this in some ways - he's clearly found a way to calm himself down - I do feel a bit uncomfortable with him carting himself off to the naughty step, particularly as I've never done it "to him" iyswim?
I know, grand scheme of things and all that, not a "problem" as such.
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3.6yo DS1 asks to sit on the naughty step...a thread for people who have strange discipline problems...
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hunkermunker · 04/11/2007 22:52
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