you know in the throes of the tantrumming years, did you find that different methods worked best?
With DS I did the traditional and textbook remove and ignore and it went away. DS would also respond well to a sharp NO.
With DD any attempt at ignoring and removing from situation merely escalates it. She seems to need me to sit by her and offer to hold her till she comes out of it. Which all my parenting experience with DS would tell me is tantamount to justifying and reinforcing the tantrum.
Am wondering if other parents have seen this too, and whether its a 'child specific' thing or a 'gender' thing
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If you have more than one child, and preferably if they are mixed genders do you think they needed different parenting techniques
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TwigorTreat · 08/10/2007 17:41
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