OK, so I'm fairly well educated and I like to think of myself as practical. I have a good grasp of biology and I don't panic easily. I'm a vet and so I have a modicum of knowledge about mammalian physiology.
I went to see a GP yesterday because my LO is constantly uncomfortable, windy, snuffly and pukey. As he's growing and feeding well the HVs are very dismissive, but I know something's bugging him and anyone who spends any time with him comments on how miserable he seems to be. I said to the doc when I arrived that I realise he isn't ill and I know he's not going to die of wind but it is causing a problem for both him and me, and it seems to be worsening with time. I'm sometimes struggling to get one straight hour of sleep in a 24 hour period now. I just wanted someone to discuss it with who would take it seriously.
Before I'd even finished speaking she'd started dismissing him as "an active baby, they're hard work these ones" (he's 7 weeks old, we're not talking gymnastics lessons here). Babies can apparently be uncomfortable "for a number of reasons, like wind, nasal congestion or even just growing" . But not to worry, she totally understood because her sister had a baby who was miserable in February . When I said that breastfeeding was the only thing which offered any respite for him she warned me that overfeeding could make him worse.
Eventually I asked her if reflux could be causing his trouble and she sort of vaguely said it was probably involved but it would get better at 4 months when he starts getting solids ... at which point I realised I was wasting both of our time and left.
Am I just being paranoid?
Am I expecting too much?
Does he actually have to have a limb hanging off before he matters?
Do I have to threaten sleep-deprived suicide before anyone gives a toss?
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Do GPs all treat new mums like idiots or is it just me?
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ChubbyScotsBurd · 14/09/2007 08:42
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