I feel like I am in a total rut, just waiting for my eldest DD1 to get to school in September. My youngest is 20 months.
I love having two children and find them a lot of fun when there are other adults around but I don't enjoy spending time with both of them when I am alone. I don't seem to be able to enjoy them.
Most of our week is spent rushing around taking DD1 to Pre-school and back. The youngest goes to a CM 2 mornings a week whilst I study at home. The afternoons are governed by DD2's unpredictable nap - which can last one hour or two hours plus. Then I seem to spend the late afternoon tidying up and getting ready for dinner.
We have one day per week when DD1 doesn't go to pre-school and I look forward to that as we have a freer day but when the day arrives, I don't feel motivated to do much with the two children.
I feel like I should be cherishing this time but really, I am just riding out the time until I have DD2 at home with me and I can hopefully work p/t again (once I finish studying)
DD1 is a hectic child. The activities I looked forward to doing with her when she reached this age have turned out not to be fun. And coping with two children appears to have zapped my energy and initiative and I don't know how to enjoy spending time with her anymore. Does it matter? Will it all even out when she goes to school? Or is there something I can do now (with a toddler in tow!) to make our time together more enjoyable.
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In a parenting-rut or maybe it's a life rut. Does it really get easier once they start school?
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ekra · 14/06/2007 08:15
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