I have 3 under 5's. My oldest will be 5 in June, my middle dd will be 4 in August and my 3rd will be 1 in July. I've been feeling low for a few months now. But it's my temper thats upsetting me.
I'm finding it hard to discipline the girls without shouting. And they cant do things the first time I ask them, nor the second. Most times I have to ask them over and over again to do something and then I have to shout to get things done.
Dh is no big help. He either laughs at me for saying silly things to the girls or has a go at me for shouting at them.
I asked him to supervise them tidying the dining room today as they had trashed it. He allowed them to do a very small amount of tidying and then left it. So when I looked at it I got upset coz they hadn't done much. He's a good dad but is just as messy as the girls. It's really getting me down.
DD3 is a velcro baby and I find it hard to tidy up when dh is not here. He just had 2 weeks off over easter but had so many other things planned that nothing got done here.
I know i'm rambling. I'm sorry. To cut an even longer story short. I just feel I wanna cry. I love my girls and I hate shouting at them all the time (I dont want to be like that). But i'm finding it so hard.
Do you have any inspirational words for me please!!
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pinkdolly · 29/04/2007 17:54
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