Is it just me, or do you find it's important to know which of you/your DH is 'responsible' for the kids at certain points in time?
I only ask 'cos this afternoon I'm getting cross with DH for not 'accepting responsibility' for the kids this afternoon at home, while I lock myself away to get some work finished. (other thread here
We both work from home, so we're in this situation a lot. When I'm 'on duty' I do everything I can to take the kids out/ entertain them/ stop them from disturbing DH/ keep them out of his office/ pre-empt requests for drinks/ snacks etc.
However when I think we've agreed he's 'on duty' he doesn't do the same, and invariably I get interrupted.
Sometimes it's even just something like "I need an hour to hem these curtains, can you keep the kids out of my hair" but he just doesn't get it! Yet he gets mad if he's trying to do some DIY and gets disturbed.
I like to 'know' I am going to be able to have a fixed period of time when I shouldn't need to be responsible for the kids because I have, theoretically 'handed over the baton' so to speak, but it only ever happens if I actually LEAVE the house.
Does this sound weird?
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Handing over the 'baton of parental responsibility' to your partner....
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Legacy · 06/04/2007 15:45
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