DD will only allow me to look after her when both me & DH (who is a SAHD) are present ... despite him doing a brilliant job, and they getting on great during the day.
DH is quite sad about this, he feels like a second-class citizen when I'm at home. Now I know that at 3 she can't reason enough to realise that the fact that she only wants mum is making daddy sad, but I still feel awful for him. I've tried explaining to her gently that daddy loves her and it makes him sad when she won't let him read a story/get her into her pyjamas etc, but she's too young to get it
We also have a 1 year old, and i'd like to be able to do his bedtime routine some nights too, but she will have a huge tantrum if daddy tries to look after her and not me. She doesn't usually mind when i look after DS, and will wait for me to finish to help her with her teeth etc, so i don't think jealousy of him is an issue - she just doesn't want DH doing it
It used to be just certain things (bedtime story, then went to getting her into pyjamas too), now its moving to her bath etc -its getting gradually worse
Anyone got through a phase like this ? Have you ever experienced it the other way around (ie SAHM being rejected when dad comes home) ? Any strategies that might help ?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
3 YO DD rejecting SAHP when other parent is home
14 replies
elelfrance · 28/11/2016 11:53
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.