So i find a ecig under my 12 year olds bed. He admits he tried it and got it from a friend at school but does not like it. I punished him by taking his xbox and mobile from him and grounding him until around christmas time. He accepted this very maturely and his behaviour has been fantastic since. Because of that i had decided to let him have his phone back as a reward after a month of being grounded. The problem is my 12 year old told us whilst he was staying with his grandparents they expressed to him, our 12 year old that our punishment was a bit sh##e and harsh? Even though they agreed with us. They have told him behind our backs and his uncle were being too hard on him by punishing him this way. And they had also been giving him an xbox to play with whilst hes been staying there. Is it just me or are they totally bang out of order here? I have been raging all weekend and not sure how to approch this without an arguement
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